I am African-American. I am a woman. I married to anther woman, who is White. I am a daughter. I am an aunt. I am a niece. I am a cousin. I am a military brat. I have a PhD in developmental psychology. I study human sexuality. I was a university professor. I am a believer. I am a skeptic. I am a life-long learner. I have lived in San Diego, Los Angeles, Atlanta, Madison, WI, New York and Japan. All of these things make up who I am and ultimately my experience in this world, our world.